All of us move on, some can do it soon and some take their own sweet time. For some people packing up their bag and physically moving to another place is moving on emotionally too. But not everyone can pack their emotions and attachments with their bags and move on for good. Some slow beings like me linger on, still want to hold on to how things were yesterday, we are hesitant movers and do a lousy job when it comes to detaching. And people like this go through pain and have no clue how to cope up and face up to the new reality. For us many days are spend reminiscing over the happy times in the past and in fact on hindsight a lot of frustating moments in the past also don't feel so bad. But its a pathetic state to be in, the longer you take the more the agony.
Some people can move on so very fast that it sometimes makes you wonder two things, are you very weak? and for these these people who have so easily moved on, did you even ever matter to them? At that time when you feel even more disgusted and irritated with yourself and just hope if you were stronger than you are. But then you have to get stronger and deal with it...the sooner the better for you. No one stops, life doesn't stop when you stop, everyone just moves on and you are left behind and a lot to catch up.
Something that does not kill you only makes you stronger.
Some people can move on so very fast that it sometimes makes you wonder two things, are you very weak? and for these these people who have so easily moved on, did you even ever matter to them? At that time when you feel even more disgusted and irritated with yourself and just hope if you were stronger than you are. But then you have to get stronger and deal with it...the sooner the better for you. No one stops, life doesn't stop when you stop, everyone just moves on and you are left behind and a lot to catch up.
Something that does not kill you only makes you stronger.
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